Male Human and Female Human

So, a few days ago i read a book from John Gray Ph. D entitled Men From Mars, Women from Venus. Basically, this book is about before we can treat each other as individuals, we must take into account the behaviour differences of the sexes. Each sex have differentiation, such as woman use their feeling and man use their brain. How to make these two completed each other? By read this book.

The most interesting chapter in this book is Men are like rubber band. In this book a man is shown as someone who excited when they got into a relationship, and become less and less excited when they had achive something in that relationship, but in the end man will back to he loved. John Gray says this is a natural act of a man, not because choice or decision.

A man can pull away because of some reason, one of it is spending too much time with his wife or girlfriend. This happened because a man, in nutshell a creature that get bored easily. When they spend too much time with his couple, he'll feel that he can do something fun with his mate, and in the opposite when he spend too much time with his mate he'll feel bored too. This also happen when he's in 'Me Time', a Time when someone can chill and get away from social interaction.

But yeah, a man will always coming home, no matter how hard the obstacle in front of him. Also, Men is like a pigeon. No matter how far they fly, they'll always back home. Most Women didn't understand or aware of this and got shocked when their couple says 'I need time alone' and think that their couple want to break up. But in reality, no a man just need spend time with the other because his world not only about his couple.

That's it about today's post. I hope you learn something valuable. Bye~